...paul... ([info]icantread01) wrote,
@ 2007-04-17 13:37:00
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A Follow Up on a Most Emotional Day
This entry is meant for those truly concerned about the events of today, and of course of the people involved (mainly Kate). This is not a post that can be used for any reason by reporters or journalists simply trying to get a story out of what transpired today. There are way too many emotions flying around at this point that any duplication of this entry used for anything other than true and pure concern, such as trying to use it to find out who is to blame or as a slander towards VT is in my opinion inhumane.

Now that that is out of the way...


Thank you to everyone who has expressed concern for Kate and all of us here at VT. It has been a very emotional day for all of us where not a single student has been able to sit calmly for more than a half hour without shaking their head in pure disbelief. Kate is for all intents and purposes fine. She came out of surgery with flying colors and with a sense of humor still. She now has a giant cast around her hand which is constantly attended to with bags of ice and a supportive family and friends by her side willing to help her in any way possible. When she came out of surgery, she was not aware of exactly HOW large the magnitude of this tragedy really was, and made us all in the room cry a bit from the story she told us being in the same room with the lunatic who changed our lives forever. It really hit me hard how much of a heroine Kate really was today, and how glad I am that she is alright, breathing and living. As she held my hand today I couldn't help but be overwhelemed with the feeling that I could get through all of this relatively unscathed now that I knew that my other half was going to be alright. Rest assured, I will be at the hospital for the remainder of all of this. My mom asked if she needed me to have her come down. My response was that it didn't matter what I needed, but what Kate needs, and right now I think she needs me by her side.

I came home after visiting hours with the notion that it would be impossible to sleep tonight, so I simply sat listening to the concerns of others for a while and the other stories of the other people on campus. It was at this time that I came into contact with an extremely nice representative of ABC's Good Morning America, who not only was concerned for Kate, but was genuinely concerened about all the students at Tech and wanted to know if there was any way she could help us with anything. With the help of this representative, I went through my phone book and was calling up as many people as possible from Tech to see if everyone they knew on campus were accounted for, and we made a list of people that we still needed to get word on. She has helped me through the night getting back to me on the condition of these students, as I let the parties concerened know of the news (good or bad). I think that perhaps one of the things overlooked by many journalists today, was that we were not interested in giving interviews because we were the same as our parents in that we needed to know that everyone was ok and breathing and living. Kate was really a truly fortunate person from the events of today, and I wish I could say that everyone I know is fine and made it through ok, but even that isn't the rubric for concern. What happened today will hit us all regardless if we knew someone personally hurt or not. And for all of us, we need to be there for each other to help us get over the insane amount of trauma we no doubt have gained from this experience.


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[info]drinkblackwine
2007-04-17 06:17 am UTC (link)
thanks for the update, paul. and nicely written. we're all here.

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[info]sevanetta
2007-04-17 06:53 am UTC (link)
Holy jeez. I am thinking of you all. Terrible things happen every day, but you just have to keep going and hold on to what is good and right.

- Kate, Australia (weirdly, the partner I had in uni was also called Paul), here via a Google search that led to the MTV.com story about bloggers and this event.

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God Bless You
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 07:09 am UTC (link)
God Bless You and Kate. You have a wonderful heart and I pray for you, Kate and all the other victims of this terrible tragedy.
I am a student at Clemson and want to let you know that all the Clemson Tigers are praying for the Hokies.
I wish you well.

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[info]cinnamon876
2007-04-17 07:12 am UTC (link)
::hug:: we're thinking of you all

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[info]karenator001
2007-04-17 07:39 am UTC (link)
Let me add my thoughts and prayers for you with the anonymous Clemson student. No, I'm not a student there. My son is. He called me today when he heard about VT to see if I knew. I didn't. This could have been any college campus anywhere in the world. I'm sorry it happened.

Even though I'm a Carolina grad, please allow this Gamecock to join hands with the Tigers in prayer for you, Kate, and all of VT.

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[info]heatherchick
2007-04-17 11:41 am UTC (link)
::hugs:: my heart goes out to you guys.

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I'm so sorry...
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 12:08 pm UTC (link)
Hi Paul, my name is Joanna. I live in New York, and I'm a student at Suffolk Community College. I came across your journal when looking for the stories of the tragedy from the students from VT. I want you to know that I am sorry for all that you have been going through. I also want you to know that my condolences go out to Kate. Keep your head up.

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Re: I'm so sorry... - [info]redlipstickclub, 2007-04-17 08:58 pm UTC
Thank you for an update...
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 12:13 pm UTC (link)
I've watched the news like millions of others and have been struck so sad that anyone has had to endure such physical or emotional pain. I have a 16 year old brother and a 12 year old son and I fear for things like this too often in their own lives. I'm thankful that Kate has made it through this alive and thankful that she has you with her. I don't know either of you personally, but your blogs (and other students' blogs) have made me feel connected to each of you. Thank you for taking the time to write even with the media hounds at your door (or nowadays lurking on your blog.) I don't know how, but they say time heals things like this. Know that you are all in my prayers. On another note, i had read on your comments yesterday that someone was looking for a friend. Because of the internet it is so easy to feel connected to people through Myspace and Facebook. I saw this morning that the young lady several people were looking for has been listed and confirmed. I'm very sorry to her friends and family because I'd seen the messages of people looking for her. To all of VT, I wish there was something I could do to make this all go away. All I (or anyone) can do now is to let you all know that yesterday and today and for many days to come, you're in my thoughts, my prayers...
With love,
Me

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[info]ifrackedcraig
2007-04-17 12:31 pm UTC (link)
kate is living proof of the goodness that can exist in the human spirit - and so are you, for that matter. to be trapped in a classroom when some lunatic comes in and starts shooting, to feel the sting of one of the bullets, to be right there in the panic and the terror and the insanity, and to still have the instinct to barricade the door, to try and prevent any further losses... wow. i'm sure everyone in that room, as well as all their families and friends, will be forever grateful for her efforts, as well as those of the other students who barricaded the door - even in the context of what will likely be the most unspeakably awful memory of their lives, the memory of kate's heroic action will float to the surface and provide a hint of comfort. i'm so sorry that you and your friends had to endure this dark, dark day.

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I hope u allright
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 12:44 pm UTC (link)
I am here in Romania, I am a Romanian and we're watching what happened yesterday at your university. I have to say that we are really sorry for all of the Americans who lost their live and for one of the professors who teaches there, as he is Romanian too, if I'm correct. I just hope that u will be able to pass this difficult "exam" and that the ones who survived will be able to recover.

Best wishes!

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Professor Librescu - (Anonymous), 2007-04-18 04:53 am UTC
The country is thinking about you
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 01:08 pm UTC (link)
I wanted to say thank you for being brave and telling your story. America is definately looking at you all like a fishbowl. I pray for your girlfriend's recovery and for your soundness and peace to return to you too.

Love to you and your friends.

Danielle Bell, Columbus, Ohio

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hey
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 02:30 pm UTC (link)
thanks for the update. love you guys

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Re: hey - (Anonymous), 2007-04-17 02:32 pm UTC

[info]sakuraai_17
2007-04-17 02:59 pm UTC (link)
Thank you very much for the update! I'm so happy to know Kate is fine!

God bless you and tell Kate I'm praying for her!

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Desde Manzanillo, Mexico
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 03:16 pm UTC (link)
Enviamos nuestras condolencias y expresar que es una verdadera pena que una persona de tan solo 23 años no solo destruyera su vida, sino la de otros tantos.. no me explico que situacion pudo ocasionar tal acto....Saludos

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[info]dixiediva82
2007-04-17 04:10 pm UTC (link)
My heart is with you and your girlfriend! I know you don't know me personally, but your blog and other students' blogs have helped to cope with the shock and disbelief of this situation.

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(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 04:13 pm UTC (link)
It seems that the german teacher you mentioned in the initial post was among those who have been confirmed dead. Truly a sad story.

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23392980-details/Jealous+lover+who+killed+32+in+college+massacre+named/article.do

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[info]putaindufromage
2007-04-17 04:50 pm UTC (link)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your girlfriend! I'm sorry that your lj has become so public during this terrible time, but know that people around the world are thinking about all of you.

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From Russia
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 04:56 pm UTC (link)
People at VT are in our thoughts and prayers, though I am somewhat lacking the words to express condolenses for the families and friends of the victims. Thanks for keeping us updated, Paul. Kate is truly incredible, please let her know that she is our heroine too! Wishing her speedy recovery, and all the best for both of you, and your families.

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[info]takemehomex13
2007-04-17 05:10 pm UTC (link)
Hey Paul, Its Joanna from New York again, I just wanted you to know that I'm here for you and Kate to talk to, and help you get through this. I pray Kate is going to come home soon.

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VT
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 05:21 pm UTC (link)
My deepest regrets that this has happened to all of you. I have 2 children 6/9 and to think that anything like this could happen to them or anyone. These are some of the years of your most precious moments/memories, having fun, planning your futures and some knucklehead that can't control his mind goes and hurts so many people. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and pray that all of you move on and let all of this pain be taken away from you. Take care of each other and God Bless!
Dios de bendiga,
Justina-Colorado

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from CHILE
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 05:40 pm UTC (link)
Dear Paul and Kate and students at VT.
I'm really shocked at all this. I can only say that my heart and prayers are with you guys.

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[info]loricae
2007-04-17 05:42 pm UTC (link)
Actually, it can be used by reporters trying to cover the story, and it is. If you don't want it to be used that way, make it friends only or private. I hope the best for your friend Kate and for all those on the VT campus.

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From Barcelona-Spain
(Anonymous)
2007-04-17 06:33 pm UTC (link)
Just wanted to say that we are sorry for all that happened, God bless you and al VT students.

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[info]scobka
2007-04-17 06:34 pm UTC (link)
Dear Paul, I'm writing from Channel One Russia.
I would like to offer you our sincere condolences on the behalf of our channel. I am sure the tragedy awoke an echo in the hearts of millions of Russian people.
I understand that you are tired of the journalists trying to contact you but that's our job, sorry.
OUr crew is in Virginia and we would be very grateful if you find an opportunity to speak to us.
My email is msagomonyan @ mail.ru
Thanks for your attention and sorry for disturbance.

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(no subject) - [info]madelynnm, 2007-04-17 06:40 pm UTC

[info]dinkydo
2007-04-17 06:46 pm UTC (link)
I just wanted to say how sorry I am that this has happened. You and everyone at VT are in my thoughts and prayers.

<3

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